Hey everyone and welcome to another post in my Bullet Journaling 101 series! I hope you guys are still enjoying them and are still able to take something from them. Which is actually kind of where this post is coming from.
By the end of June, I started to use my bullet journal a bit less but I still went into July with the intention of using it regularly again and making the most of it. After all, it’s sometimes I truly enjoy doing and love sharing with you guys. Well, let’s just say things didn’t quite work out that way. And I blame one of my biggest mistakes on it.
Mistake #1: Inconsistency
I started off in my new bullet journal back in April and I was loving it. Every second I spent working on and in my journal was super awesome and I looked forward to getting to update it each morning (or at the very least every other day). But something changed along the way somewhere around the month of June and I ended up using my journal less often.
My habit tracker was kind of getting updated, sometimes a couple of days late but usually still somewhat in a timely manner. In July though? I don’t think I’ve actively used my tracker for 95% of the month. I also haven’t truly been using my other monthly spreads to their full potential.
The one thing I enjoy filling in is my reading tracker but that might be because I can do it after the fact. Since I update my reading on Goodreads too, I can just check over there how much I read on any given day.
But yeah, as soon as I started using my journal less often and more importantly consistently, my motivation to keep doing my journal lessened more and more. Which is also why you guys didn’t actually get a July set up on the blog (I did set it up in my journal though, I just never shared it) or much bullet journal related content in general.
Mistake #2: Doing What Everyone Else Does
I feel like this might start to play into why I’m using my journal less too. The fact that I’ve come to a place where I use a certain set of monthly spreads because I think that’s something I need to use. Everyone else has a set of monthly/weekly spreads they use so why shouldn’t I do it too?
But as I just mentioned, I haven’t been using my spreads to their fullest potential and they feel more like wasted space rather than something fun and exciting to do. Is it actually time to retire even more spreads? And come up with new ones I can use instead? Or find less ‘demanding’ ways of using my existing ones?
It might be high time for an extensive Pinterest browse to find some inspiration and motivation to get myself going again!
Mistake #3: Weekly Spreads
This is one of the older mistakes I made that also plays into the one I just talked about. But when I first started using a bullet journal back in 2016 I was deep into the bullet journal community on YouTube and everyone was (and still is) using these weekly and even daily spreads to organize their lives and I kept trying to use them too.
But I very quickly realized that I just wasn’t using them. Especially once I stopped going to school and no longer needed to keep my school related things organized.
Is it weird if I start talking to myself for a second here? Because obviously I’ve made a similar mistake to above before and I fixed it by dropping what wasn’t working. Why do I act like I don’t know what I should be doing right now? If it’s not working, either find a way to improve it and make it work for you – or drop it. There, that’s your solution.
Okay, now let’s get back to my usual blogging, shall we? But yeah, it’s weird that my brain keeps being like ‘Oh no, what should we do???’ when the solution is quite obvious. xD
Mistake #4: DIYing
This is something I want to kick my own butt for. Back when I bought my current bullet journal I went for a cheaper alternative because I really got into the idea of DIYing the cover to make it more pretty (in my own eyes) and all of that.
Well, I started off by spraypainting the cover in gold which kind of messed with the journal a little bit. Nothing too bad. But, I soon realized that I didn’t actually like the gold cover so I DIYed it once more.
I used some mod podge and torn out book pages to put a different cover on my journal which really messed it up. The glue holding everything together isn’t quite doing what it’s supposed to and neither is the binding. Which sucks. And annoys me. But I also don’t want to spend money on a new journal because I’m only about a third of the way through this journal. That would be a complete waste.
What I’m trying to do instead is sticking it out and using the journal until I run out of pages and can get myself a new one (or, go back to the model I was using before). But I also kind of feel like this might be contributing towards me not wanting to use my journal as regularly as before – which is basically the big overarching problem, in my eyes.
But I want to be a responsible adult who doesn’t just throw money into the wind because something isn’t working quite the way they want it to. That’s no way to walk through life.
How about you guys? How do you deal with situations that aren’t working out quite the way you want them to? Or when you realize that something you usually love isn’t as fun anymore? What do you do? Help a somewhat planless (or too stubborn) Swetlana out by dropping some tips in the comments down below! I’d really, really appreciate it! ❤